Yes. Women in business should lean in. No. It is not easy or without making difficult choices. Know that it will be messy. Know that it, likely, will not look like the “Lean In” author’s household at home. But, lean into your career anyway. To navigate the challenges of time, resources and balancing family priorities, set your sights on your goal. Set the goal for your career and approach it with fierce determination. You can not do it all. If a friend, an article or whoever tells you that you can do it ALL…they are wrong. So choose carefully. Just the act of choosing a priority career goal can free you from the burden of many competing (and often compelling) priorities. Start by asking yourself “what brings you joy?” and “where are your truly talented?” Now, go for it. Careers are like babies, there is never a perfect time. You just do it.